Hardwired to Belong: A Conversation on Betrayal, Presence, and Coming Home to Yourself with author Becky Moller

<p>What happens when the person you trust most tells you a truth that breaks you wide open? For Becky Moller, that moment became the doorway into a whole new life.</p><p>Becky joined us this week to talk about her journey from betrayal trauma into becoming a mindfulness teacher, author, and mentor. In 2014, her husband disclosed an online relationship connected to a pornography addiction he&#39;d struggled with for years. Becky had always been the high functioning, juggle everything kind of person, and this was the moment she finally broke. What followed was a decade of healing that took her through twelve step recovery, meditation and yoga training, and eventually into building her own program, Undone Academy.</p><p>We talked about what it actually means to heal in the body, not just the mind, why relationships can be some of the most powerful growth machines we have, and how Becky came to understand that the pain she carried was never really about her husband at all. It was about learning to fully love and accept every part of herself.</p><p><strong>OUR FAVORITE QUOTES</strong></p><p>&quot;I went from being a high functioning, juggle all the balls kind of person, to I just couldn&#39;t function anymore.&quot;</p><p>&quot;What he did had exposed all of this pain that was already in me. The stuff I actually had to heal had very little to do with him at all.&quot;</p><p>&quot;Your deepest self knows how to heal. It already knows. Our job is just to get out of the way.&quot;</p><p>&quot;We are literally hardwired to belong to each other.&quot;</p><p>&quot;The pain you feel is our human inheritance. Just focus on your next right step, because that&#39;s how you find your way through.&quot;</p><p><strong>CHAPTER MARKERS</strong></p><p>03:13 Becky&#39;s life now and how she got here</p><p>03:50 The disclosure that broke everything open</p><p>07:07 The pain was never really about him</p><p>13:16 Healing starts with creating space</p><p>17:09 The body as a portal into presence</p><p>23:56 Stepping into a frequency you didn&#39;t know existed</p><p>29:03 The book, the retreat, and the 60 day challenge</p><p>37:26 You are not alone</p><p><strong>YOUR TURN</strong></p><p>Where in your life are you trying to think your way through something that your body already knows how to heal? This week, notice what happens when you stop analyzing it and just ask yourself, can I be with this?</p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH BECKY</strong></p><p>Becky is opening up the 60 Day Mindful