Ignite Your Confidence with Karen Laos

← Ignite Your Confidence with Karen Laos7 oct. · 15 min

Stop Waiting. Start Asking. 5 Ways to Get What You Want.

Stop Waiting. Start Asking. 5 Ways to Get What You Want.7 oct.15 min

What do you want that you haven’t asked for?

A promotion. More money. More flexibility. A bigger opportunity.

Too often, we talk ourselves out of asking before anyone else even has the chance to say yes. We worry about being judged, rocking the boat, or hearing no. But here’s the thing: if you don’t ask, the answer is already no.

In this episode, I’m sharing five ways to ask for what you want with confidence:

Make the ask. Stop waiting to be invited.Speak with confidence. Conviction changes how people receive your message.Make it matter to them. Connect what you want to what they care about.Take the risk. Ask for the money, flexibility, promotion, exposure, or opportunity.Be irresistible. Confidence + warmth + collaboration is a powerful combination.I’ll also share how I negotiated one of the highest salaries for my role early in my career, including a signing bonus and more vacation time.

You have more to gain by asking than you do by staying quiet.

Ask. You might be surprised by the answer.

Some resources for you:

Get 3 Strategies to Speak Up in Meetings here.

Project more confidence and credibility with my free tips: 9 Words to Avoid & What to Say Instead: Words to Avoid | Karen Laos

My book “Trust Your Own Voice”: https://karenlaos.com/book/

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