Having Sex or Performing It: Pleasure, Body Image & Sex Trends (ft. Jill Lissner)

<p>Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with sex educator Jill Lissner, aka @sexedprincesss, forconversation about performative sex, pleasure, body image, consent, communication, and the weird sex trends taking over the internet.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Topics covered:</strong></p><ul><li>Performative sex and what it means</li><li>Pleasure vs. performance</li><li>Authentic/non-performative sex</li><li>Gendered expectations around appearance</li><li>Penis size, erections and stamina</li><li>Moaning and performing sounds</li><li>Staying quiet because of shame or expectations</li><li>Soft penises and body acceptance</li><li>Decentering penetration</li><li>Mutual masturbation and vulnerability</li><li>Porn as a performance</li><li>Being perceived and worrying how you look</li><li>Likeability, acceptance and social performance</li><li>Reducing performance anxiety through exposure</li><li>“Spectatoring” during sex</li><li>Advocating for your needs during sex</li><li>Defaulting to giving as a performance</li><li>Preference vs. performance</li><li>Orgasm faces</li><li>“Cracked” and modern sexual terminology</li><li>Active participation in sex</li><li>Riding/on-top positions and performing for appearance</li><li>Recording sexual experiences</li><li>Penetration as a performance expectation</li><li>Critical thinking about sexual norms</li><li>Internet sex trends</li><li>Ball maxing/scrotum maxing</li><li>Scrotum size and attraction</li><li>How sexual trends spread online</li><li>The need for more scientific research on emerging sex trends</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Follow Jill:Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/sexedprincesss/">@sexedprincesss</a></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Follow Alexa Andre:Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/sexwithalexa/">@sexwithalexa</a></p><p>Patreon: <a href="https://patreon.com/sexwithalexa">https://patreon.com/sexwithalexa</a></p>