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← J&B Live Podcast8 oct. · 28 min

MY EX NEEDS HELP… DO I NEED YOUR PERMISSION?!

MY EX NEEDS HELP… DO I NEED YOUR PERMISSION?!8 oct.28 min

Your ex needs $300. Your current partner knows NOTHING about it. You send the money anyway… then say, “It’s MY money. I wasn’t asking permission!” 😳💸Was that kindness—or disrespect?🎙️ Join Broker J3 & Dr. B on J&B Live as we unpack a relationship debate that goes BOTH ways: helping an ex while building a life with someone new.An ex’s emergency can raise some uncomfortable questions. Are you simply returning a favor? Are you still their go-to person? And why does your current partner have to find out AFTER the money is gone? 👀🔥 IN THIS EPISODE:💰 Separate money versus shared responsibilities❤️ Compassion for an ex versus loyalty to your partner🗣️ Asking permission versus showing consideration👨‍👩‍👧 What changes when you share a child?🏠 Helping an ex while bills at home go unpaid📱 Deleted messages, secrecy, and damaged trust🔄 Whether we judge men and women by the same rulesThen we introduce a fictional scenario: a $300 car repair, a grateful ex, and one deleted message that changes the conversation:“You always take care of me. Some things never change.” 😬💬 JOIN THE CONVERSATION:Would you be more upset about…A️⃣ The money?B️⃣ The fact that it went to an ex?C️⃣ Finding out afterward?D️⃣ The deleted message?Tell us your choice—and WHY. Does sharing a child change your answer? Would you accept the same rule if the roles were reversed?📌 FINISH THIS SENTENCE:“Helping an ex crosses the line when __________.”👍 Like this episode.🔔 Subscribe and turn on notifications for more J&B Live conversations.📲 Share it with someone who will have a VERY different opinion!💬 Watching the replay? We want your perspective, too.CONNECT WITH J&B LIVE📱 Follow: @LiveWithJandB🎧 Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio, Amazon Music, YouTube Music, Pandora, Podbean, and Deezer.📧 Business inquiries and topic suggestions: livewithjandb@gmail.comThis episode uses an original fictional scenario and illustrative audience responses to explore relationship boundaries. Share your experience without identifying private individuals, and keep disagreements respectful.🎙️ J&B Live Entertainment LLC“I’m Broker J3, and I’m Dr. B… and Let’s Talk About It!”#JandBLive #RelationshipBoundaries #HelpingAnEx #RelationshipTalk #ExRelationships #MoneyAndRelationships #TrustAndCommunication #DatingAndMarriage #BrokerJ3 #DrB #LetsTalkAboutIt