68: Life After… Being Haunted: House clearing, letting go, and saying goodbye to the man who watched me sleep

<p>I&#39;ve told you about being psychic. Now let me tell you about being haunted.</p><p><br></p><p>For years I&#39;ve sensed things I can&#39;t fully explain: a spirit who attached herself to me during my last abusive relationship, gentle presences in a home that finally felt safe, and a man who has watched me sleep for as long as I can remember. I never felt scared of him. I just accepted he was there.</p><p><br></p><p>But recently, things in my apartment started shifting, and I had to face a question I wasn&#39;t ready for: what if the presence I&#39;d mistaken for a protector was actually the thing holding me back?</p><p><br></p><p>I chat about:</p><ul><li>The ghost I believe I lived with during my last abusive relationship, and how her silence mirrored the silence I was living in</li><li>The man who has watched me sleep for years, and why I never felt afraid of him</li><li>How things in my apartment turned unsettling</li><li>Booking a house clearing with a medium, and discovering the haunting wasn&#39;t just mine, it was the whole floor of the building</li><li>Being asked &quot;are you ready to let go of him?&quot; and realising the question wasn&#39;t really about a ghost</li><li>The phone call with my dad that same night, where he told me he loved me for the very first time </li></ul><p><br></p><p>Whether you believe in ghosts or not, this episode isn&#39;t really about ghosts. It&#39;s about the things we hold onto long after they&#39;ve stopped serving us, and what happens when we finally ask ourselves if we&#39;re ready to let go.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Mentioned in this episode:</strong></p><ul><li>19: Life After… Becoming Psychic: Intuition, ghost stories, and spiritual energy: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/5vi5iqrzoPA7OvWB0EFX12">https://open.spotify.com/episode/5vi5iqrzoPA7OvWB0EFX12</a></li><li>Spiritual As F**k Podcast: <a href="https://www.spiritualaf.co/podcast">https://www.spiritualaf.co/podcast</a></li></ul><p><br></p><p>Apply to be an author in the Life After I Left Anthology: <a href="https://forms.gle/XKMtPoukCfVKnbqF9">https://forms.gle/XKMtPoukCfVKnbqF9</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect with Cat:</strong></p><ul><li>Join my mailing list: <a href="https://catlouisedunn.myflodesk.com/mailing-list">https://catlouisedunn.myflodesk.com/mailing-list</a></li><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lifeafterileftpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/lifeafterileftpodcast/</a></li><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www