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Around But Not Present - A Working Mom's Honest Confession And More | Elena Chow Ep 36
<p>From a 15-year career at Procter & Gamble to taking a 4 year career pause to be a stay-home-mom to building <strong>ConnectOne</strong>, a company that helps high-growth startups find and develop their teams — <strong>Elena Chow</strong> has spent decades helping others build meaningful careers, all while raising four children and navigating her own seasons of work and motherhood.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, I sit down with <strong>Elena</strong>, who shares her rare honesty about the <em>paradox of being around but not present</em>, what “balance” really looks like in different seasons of life, and why sometimes, the bravest thing a woman can do is pause.</p><p><br></p><p>Elena opens up about stepping away from corporate life, starting over as an entrepreneur in her 40s, and how faith, community, and purpose guided her through each transition. As a recruiter and pioneer member of the Portfolio Careers Asia group, she also shares her candid advice for mothers today — whether you’re taking a break, returning to work, or exploring a more flexible, <em>fractional</em> path.</p><p><br></p><p>As a mother, founder, and mentor to many, Elena reminds us that having it all doesn’t mean doing it all — it means understanding the season you’re in, and choosing what matters most in it.</p><p><br></p><p>In this heartfelt conversation, we explored:</p><p>💼 How Elena pivoted from corporate to entrepreneurship — and built Connect One from scratch</p><p>🧭 What it means to “fake it till you make it” with courage and humility</p><p>👩👧👧 The hardest lesson about being present as a working mom</p><p>💬 Why there’s no such thing as perfect work-life balance — only shifting seasons</p><p>✨ How women can thrive in today’s world of <strong>fractional work, portfolio careers, and flexible opportunities</strong></p><p><br></p><p>—-----------------------------------------------</p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 Debunking Work-Life Balance Myths</p><p>01:01 Introduction</p><p>03:14 How She Knew It Was Time to Leave Corporate</p><p>07:56 The Hardest Part of Being a Mom-Entrepreneur</p><p>16:08 What She Wishes She Knew Earlier</p><p>24:52 The Unexpected Way Her Kids Learned</p><p>26:25 Why Volunteering Changed Everything</p><p>27:16 The Trips That Shifted Her Family’s Worldview</p><p>31:06 The Truth About Career Pivots for Moms</p><p>42:21 The One Thing Moms Returning to Work Must Hear</p><p>—-----------------------------------------------</p><p><br></p><p>Connect with Elena