PROJECT 24 - The Table

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WE’RE DOING A LOT. WHY DOES IT NEVER FEEL LIKE ENOUGH?

WE’RE DOING A LOT. WHY DOES IT NEVER FEEL LIKE ENOUGH?Nouveau8 min

<p>Dominic Michael talks about the strain of being the person everyone depends on—and the difference between being asked for help and having our time assumed. This conversation explores constant helpfulness, fatigue, appreciation, and wanting care without feeling guilty for needing it. We discuss making room for personal time, saying no, and building relationships where consideration goes both ways. We can remain dependable without being available every minute.</p><p>We remember. We help. We follow through.</p><p>Then we finally sit down, and somebody wants to know what else we can do.</p><p>Some of us have become so dependable that people have stopped asking whether we have time. They ask what time we can do it.</p><p><strong>Our weekend gets volunteered before we’ve decided what we wanted to do with it.</strong></p><p>We care about these people. We’re not looking to abandon them.</p><p>But sometimes we’d like our effort noticed before another request arrives—and our own plans considered before everyone assumes we’ll adjust.</p><p>In this free conversation, Dominic Michael explores what it feels like to keep making things work while wondering why everything we do never quite feels like enough.</p><p>We talk about the difference between kindness and constant availability, the fatigue that can come from always being helpful, and wanting to be known beyond what we handle for other people.</p><p>We also discuss personal time, boundaries, and asking for recognition and care without turning every need into an apology.</p><p>This isn’t about blaming us for being generous or assuming everyone around us is unkind. It’s about making room for mutual understanding—and remembering that the dependable person has a life of their own.</p><p>We can love helping and still need a break. We can be capable and still want company. We can care about someone without making ourselves available for every request.</p><p><strong>We don’t need to prove we’re exhausted before our need for care becomes reasonable.</strong></p><p>For the extended conversation, continue with <strong>“We’re Not Here Just to Make Everybody Else’s Life Easier.”</strong></p><p><strong>Project 24 — The Table · Spotify and Apple Podcasts</strong></p><p>Episode Description</p>