
← Quality Queen Control16 sept. · 27 min
You Have Chemistry... But Can He Actually Be in a Relationship?
You can have insane chemistry with someone who is TERRIBLE at relationships. I said what I said.
We keep asking "Do we like each other?" when we should be asking "Can this person actually BE in a relationship?"
Liking each other is easy. Being in a relationship is a SKILL. And most people you have chemistry with have zero relationship skills.
In today’s episode, I'm breaking down the difference between chemistry and capacity, and the 5 questions you NEED to ask before you waste another year on a vibe that will never become a home.
IN THIS EPISODE:
Why chemistry is lying to you The difference between chemistry and compatibility (this will change how you date) Question 1: Can he communicate when he's upset or does he punish you with silence? Question 2: Can he be consistent or only intense? Question 3: Can he handle conflict without making you the problem? Question 4: Do you like who YOU are when you're with him? Question 5: Can he actually show up as a partner, not just a boyfriend? Why you keep falling for chemistry and how to break the pattern This episode will save you 2 years.
Watch it before your next date. Watch it before you text him back.