Worried About Your Divorce Lawyer? Delays, Bills and Backpedaling in Family Law Explained

🎧 Listen to this episode if…

You've sent emails and heard nothing back for weeks The strategy has completely changed without a discussion The family violence you disclosed isn't even in your affidavit Your lawyer is great at invoices but not much else You're thinking about leaving your lawyer but don't know the steps ⚠️ Disclaimer: General information only, not legal advice. Based on Australian family law. Always get independent legal advice, and consider all aspects before deciding to leave your lawyer.

🛟 This episode discusses family violence and coercive control. If you're in danger call 000. Support: 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732).

About this episode:

Bad lawyer, bad fit – or a good lawyer having a bad month? Mum and I walk through what a good lawyer relationship looks like, reasonable response times, why strategies change (and when backpedaling is a red flag), what to do when your lawyer minimises family violence, how to question a bill without feeling horrible, the repair conversation to have before you leave, and the exact steps to change lawyers without leaving yourself in the lurch. You're the client – it's okay to ask questions.

⏱️ Timeline

00:00 – Warning Signs Your Divorce Lawyer Might Be the Problem

01:00 – Why Family Lawyers Are Hardworking (And Human)

02:00 – You're the Client: Permission to Ask Questions

04:00 – Legal Disclaimer and Family Violence Warning

05:00 – What a Good Lawyer Relationship Looks Like

06:00 – What Your Lawyer Should Explain Without Being Asked