Ep. 126 - When Someone Is Disappointed in You and You Still Choose You

<p>When someone is disappointed in you, how long is it before you start explaining yourself?</p><p><br /></p><p>I get into what that reaction is really about, because the fear underneath it is almost never their emotion. It is what we have decided their disappointment says about us. I share the breakfast conversation where someone I love told me I can be controlling, and what I found when I got curious instead of defending myself.</p><p><br /></p><ul><li>The question to ask before you try to fix anyone's disappointment</li><li>The difference between going against your values and going against someone's expectation of you</li><li>Why over-explaining stops being communication somewhere around the third text</li></ul><p><br /></p><p>If you have ever softened a decision you still believed in, this one is for you.</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>WAYS TO GO DEEPER</strong></p><p><br /></p><p>Join the free Shine House community: <a href="https://www.skool.com/theshinehouse" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.skool.com/theshinehouse</a></p><p>Hang with me on Instagram: <a href="https://instagram.com/joyful_noelle" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://instagram.com/joyful_noelle</a></p><p>Explore courses and coaching on my website: <a href="https://rise2shine.co" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://rise2shine.co</a></p>