150- From Control to Connection: A Christian Mom’s Guide to Raising Faith‑Centered Kids with Michelle Konson

Are you tired of power struggles, mom guilt, and feeling like you’re constantly “correcting” instead of connecting? In this episode of Front Parking Spot Podcast, we explore how Christian moms can move from control‑based parenting to heart‑centered, faith‑driven connection with their kids.

Join host Jennifer Bosma and guest Michelle Konson — speaker, writer, story‑work guide, creator of the Untangling Your Story Journal, former corporate attorney, wife and mother of four, for a faith‑centered conversation about how our personal stories shape the way we parent. This episode moves into a candid, practical discussion on caring for the children in front of you while doing the healing work you need for yourself.

Michelle draws on trauma‑informed principles, interpersonal neurobiology, attachment theory, and her Christian faith to explain why control often becomes a survival strategy for parents and how curiosity can replace reactivity. She and Jennifer talk about real moments, from the frantic morning routines to tough conversations about faith — and show how simple shifts in response can create connection instead of shutdown.

The episode explores important science and theology: how early years form neural networks (including the difference between big‑T and little‑t trauma), why repair after ruptures matters more than perfection, and the hope found in neuroplasticity — the brain’s ability to change. Michelle shares the still‑face research example and explains why consistent, loving repair teaches children they can be soothed and trusted.

You’ll learn:

Why control‑focused parenting creates distance (even when your intentions are good)

How Scripture guides us toward connection, grace, and relationship

Practical ways to respond instead of react

How to build trust, emotional safety, and spiritual growth in your home

What it looks like to parent with the Holy Spirit — not fear, frustration, or overwhelm

If you’re longing for more peace, more joy, and deeper connection with your children, this episode will give you the encouragement and tools you need to parent with confidence and Christ‑centered purpose.

Listeners get actionable takeaways you can use today: lead with curiosity instead of shutting down emotions, invite children to voice their fears, validate feelings, practice repair when you lose your temper, and create space for kids to make guided choices so faith becomes their own. Michelle encourages moms to start their healing journey with community, cou