You’re Not Hard to Love. You’re Performing for It.

Have you ever felt like you had to be a certain version of yourself to be loved? In this episode, I’m talking about what it means to perform in relationships , to overgive, overexplain, overachieve just to feel secure. Where that pattern starts, how it shows up quietly, and what it takes to stop tying your worth to how well you’re received. If you’ve ever felt exhausted from trying to be “enough,” this one is for you. Stay connected: Instagram @monica_cotolan @girl_ive_been_thinking_p...