EP 307.5: 'I'm Not Sick Enough for Help' ~ The Lie That's Keeping You in the Cycle + What to Do Next

Sis, today I'm getting right to the good stuff — the number one pitfall that keeps so many women trapped in disordered eating for far too long: not asking for help.

For the longest time in my journey, I sat in denial. I don't need help. No one could help me. I'm fine — I'm functioning. That's a lie, and today I'm lovingly calling you out on it, because you are more than a conqueror, you are an overcomer, and it is time to step into that truth.

If you've ever told yourself "I'm not sick enough," this episode is for you.

The lie underneath "I'm fine"

Functioning is not the same as free. You can be eating, holding your life together, "fine" on the outside — and still be trapped in the cycle. Telling yourself you're not sick enough isn't the truth; it's the disorder keeping you exactly where it wants you.

Here's my tough-love truth: if you're not okay asking for help, your why isn't big enough yet — and I say that only because I want freedom for you that badly. It's not enough to hope for a healthier future. It takes a new mindset, new behaviors, and uncomfortable action taken little by little, every day.

Why asking for help matters so much

The reality of this illness is serious — and I share these numbers not to scare you, but to light a fire of hope:

Up to 10% of people with anorexia die within about 10 years of onset, and up to 20% within 20 years — but with treatment and support, that mortality rate drops to around 2–3%. Support changes everything.

The death rate associated with anorexia is roughly 12 times higher than the death rate from all causes among females ages 15–24.

And yet the majority of people with eating disorders never seek help.

I fell into that "never seek help" group for a long time — until a fire rose up in me that said: I am not a statistic. I am not average. Watch me. Support took me from a statistic to a survivor. It can do the same for you.