Crafting a Life with Zero Tradeoffs: Success Secrets of Apex Living

Having it all has always been an alluring idea.

A life of extraordinary wealth… and ample white space in your calendar to enjoy it. Being there when the kids get home from school… and also having a career you find creatively fulfilling and deeply meaningful. Feeling strong and good in our bodies… and still feeling soft, relaxed, and deeply feminine.

But somewhere along the way, we have been taught that these things cannot coexist together.

Money or peace. Ambition or motherhood. A dependable twenty-year marriage or sex worth canceling dinner for.

“I’d rather be happy than rich” passes for wisdom, as though happiness and financial thriving somehow aren’t allowed to play together?

And “something has to give” sounds so reasonable that we rarely ask who decided that…or what becomes possible when we stop agreeing.

Because once we accept that two desires are incompatible, we don’t create a life where we have it all. We anticipate the loss, organize around it, and eventually call it “reality.”

How much money, pleasure, and freedom have women left on the table by agreeing they couldn’t have them together?

Spoiler Alert: A LOT.

In this episode, I cover:

* The phrases you are saying every single day that immediately reveal what you believe you must give up to have what you want—and how those unquestioned assumptions go on to severely limit your wealth, freedom, and pleasure.

* Why earning $120,000 cost me more freedom than our million-dollar years. What changed (and why working harder would have made the problem worse).