
← In Bed With Alexa: Have Better Sex13 aug · 45 min
Pt. 2 - I Asked a Butt Surgeon Every Question You're Too Embarrassed to Ask (ft. Dr. Evan Goldstein)
<p>Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in back bed with Dr. Evan Goldstein, founder of Bespoke Surgical, creator of Future Method, and author of <em>Butt Seriously</em>. They discuss anal health, pleasure, preparation, and all the questions people are often too embarrassed to ask.</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Topics discussed in this episode:</strong></p><ul><li>Anal pleasure and breaking down taboos and myths</li><li>Exploring anal stimulation for the first time</li><li>The P-spot/prostate and prostate orgasms</li><li>The A-spot and anal pleasure for women</li><li>Topping vs. bottoming</li><li>Why tops should understand anal anatomy</li><li>Anal foreplay and gradual penetration</li><li>The three sphincter muscles</li><li>Breathing, relaxation and communication</li><li>Pain, bleeding and discomfort during anal sex</li><li>Lube and why anal sex differs from vaginal sex</li><li>Penis size, thickness and anatomy</li><li>Mushroom-shaped penises and preparation</li><li>Bad first anal experiences</li><li>Self-exploration and masturbation</li><li>Pressure vs. in-and-out stimulation</li><li>Riding and controlling penetration</li><li>Dilators and gradual anal training</li><li>Anatomy vs. psychological/neurological factors</li><li>Bleeding, tightness and when to seek medical care</li><li>Poop during anal sex</li><li>Shame and anxiety around cleanliness</li><li>Douching and over-douching</li><li>Gut health, fiber and diet</li><li>Prebiotics and probiotics</li><li>Food and how diet can affect anal sex</li><li>Condoms and anal sex</li><li>PrEP and DoxyPEP</li><li>The “toy test” after douching</li><li>Hemorrhoids and what they actually are</li><li>Fissures and skin tags</li><li>Pegging and strap-on play</li><li>Prostate massage and prostate milking</li><li>Edging and gooning</li><li>Anal Botox and pelvic floor physical therapy</li><li>Butt facials</li><li>Butt acne, ingrown hairs and hair removal</li><li>Wet wipes and anal irritation</li><li>Bidets and portable bidets</li><li>Toilet paper vs. water-based cleaning</li><li>Evan's work with Bespoke Surgical and Future Method</li></ul><p><br /></p><p>Follow Dr. G:Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/drevangoldstein/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@drevangoldstein</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bespokesurgical/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@bespokesurgical</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thefuturemethod/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@thefut