EP 693: How to Break Limerence and Finally Stop Obsessing Over Them (Why Love Feels So Hard Pt. 1)

Have you ever been more devastated over someone you almost dated than someone you actually dated?

Maybe it was only a few dates. Maybe it was never official. You still find yourself rereading the texts, checking their stories, and comparing everyone you meet to a relationship that never actually existed. I’ve been there, and there’s nothing wrong with you. Today we’re kicking off a brand new series on why love and dating feel so hard right now, starting with limerence and romantic obsession through an attachment lens. The truth is, you may not be obsessed with them at all. You may be obsessed with what being chosen by them would finally prove about you.

Inside the Episode:

Why “just enough” connection is more addictive than a real relationship, and the cycle that keeps you hookedHow limerence shows up differently for anxious and avoidant attachment (avoidants, this one might surprise you)The poem I wrote a guy on date number two, plus the questions I wish I’d asked first

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