Demonstrating Emotional Leadership

Dr. Eddie Capparucci and Tami explore the uncomfortable truths of emotional regulation, the importance of sitting with emotional discomfort, and realistic expectations for betrayal addicts and their partners to see improvements in their relationship. They then answer listener questions about  emotional regulation techniques, timeframes, and the motivation behind seeking to be an emotionally regulated partner in a relationship.

TAKEAWAYS:

[1:33] The hard truth of staying emotionally present.

[4:34] Roadblocks to developing emotional leadership.

[7:08] What emotional leadership isn't.

[10:29] What emotional leadership is.

[18:30] Your partner is seeking safety, not explanations.

[20:33] Dialogue for emotionally stable conversations.

[22:35] The role of healthy conflict in healing.

[28:19] "You are asking a lot of the betrayed partner."

[33:32] The person in pain and grief never gets to take a timeout from the nightmare. Why should their partner?

[35:17] Is this a slip or relapse?