E279: Ask a Sex Therapist: Kink Icks, Spicy Pics, and Vanilla Sex

Would you tell your partner if their kink gave you the ick? What if their foreplay technique wasn't quite doing it for you? And is it normal for sex to be just okay most of the time?

Oh, we've got some GOOD questions for you today.

We're back with another round of Ask a Sex Therapist, answering the questions you've been sending us about sex, pleasure, and all those things you might be a little too embarrassed to ask out loud.

From requesting spicy pics to navigating intimacy when your marriage is going through a rough patch, we're getting into the details with our favorite combination of honest conversations, practical advice, and a little TMI.

In this episode, you'll hear:

How to ask your wife for spicy pics in a way that feels fun for both of you

What to do when your partner's kink gives you the ick

How to navigate intimacy when your marriage is going through a rough patch

Whether it's normal for sex to be average most of the time and mind-blowing only occasionally

Why clitoral stimulation can sometimes feel so intense that it almost hurts

How to tell your partner you want something different during foreplay without hurting their feelings

Whether you've been wondering about one of these questions yourself or you're just here for the juicy details, you're going to love this conversation.