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30: BIG Behaviors… Where Did That Come From?
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When your autistic child suddenly starts using extreme language, explosive phrases, or emotional scripts that seem to come out of nowhere, there's a question worth asking before assuming the behavior itself is the whole problem:
Where did they learn it?
In our house, we discovered Graham wasn't just watching characters—he was learning from them. He was borrowing their words, tone, and emotional responses and applying those scripts to real-life situations. That realization eventually led us to make significant changes to what he was consuming.
But something surprising happened: Graham didn't stop scripting when we changed his media. His scripts changed.
In this episode, we're talking about why Christian parents raising autistic disciples need to pay attention not only to how much screen time our kids have, but to what is filling that time. We'll talk about scripting and echolalia, how media can provide language for emotions, what happened when we changed Graham's content, and why his tendency to retain and repeat language has actually become an incredible avenue for discipleship.
You'll also walk away with a practical way to evaluate your child's media this week:
Listen → Trace → Evaluate → Replace → Observe
Listen for repeated phrases or emotional responses. Trace where they may have learned them. Evaluate the content—not simply for whether it's "appropriate," but for what it teaches about anger, fear, conflict, authority, and relationships. Replace unhelpful inputs with better ones rather than simply removing screens. Then observe what begins showing up in everyday life.