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How Rich Families Think (with Bridget Kustin from Ownership Project 2.0)
<p>This week we're sharing an episode from our friends at System Catalysts, a podcast about the philanthropists and changemakers working to improve the systems that shape our world. We think this conversation will change how you see the major donors on your caseload.</p><p>Anthropologist Bridget Kustin, Senior Research Fellow at Oxford's Saïd Business School and Director of Ownership Project 2.0, has spent years studying billion-dollar family businesses and family offices. Instead of approaching wealth holders with criticism or flattery, she approaches them the way she once approached families in Bangladesh: as people, with curiosity about how their world actually works.</p><p>What she found may surprise you. Nearly every wealth holder she met genuinely wanted to do good. So why isn't more money moving toward lasting change? Bridget points to a deep fear of failure that often starts at birth, a complicated and very personal relationship with risk, and a reluctance to gamble away what a family spent generations building. She also shares that many wealthy families give in ways that are ad hoc and inconsistent, often without a clear philanthropic strategy.</p><p>For fundraisers, there's a lot here to sit with. Bridget hears again and again from wealth holders that she's one of the few people in their lives who doesn't want their money. That says something about the world our donors live in, where nearly every relationship comes with an ask. It's a good reminder that donors want to be known as people first, and that helping them tell a story of meaningful success, even when a problem won't be fully solved in their lifetime, may be what unlocks their giving.</p><p><strong>In this episode:</strong></p><ul><li>Why most research on the wealthy falls into either criticism or praise, and what gets missed in between</li><li>What family-owned businesses reveal about long-term thinking, risk, and responsibility</li><li>Why so much philanthropy at the highest levels is scattershot rather than strategic</li><li>How fear of failure and loss aversion keep capital from moving</li><li>Why partnership, not individual credit, is what makes systems change possible</li><li>Bridget's challenge to listeners: if you admire someone's work, what's stopping you from joining it?</li></ul><p><strong>Learn more:</strong><br>Ownership Project 2.0: <a href="https://www.sbs.ox.ac.uk/research-and-insight/centres-and-initiatives/ownership-project-20