162: The chronic hard moments that end in lectures or fights

I'm no stranger to a lecture. In fact, that's all my body knows as a solution for high conflict. That's all my dad did and I'm drawn to that as the solution to the hard moments with my ADHD kid.

In this episode I share some of the underlying reasons we reach for lectures and punishments in hard patterns. And how these choices fuel the conflict even more.

I share a few steps you can take right now to start moving the needle in the direction of the desired behavior.

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If the masterclass is too far away, and you want to take the first step. Grab my 39 minute video / workbook combo where you will learn exactly why you feel so awful in these moments with your ADHD kid AND you'll learn the steps necessary to get out of the heat of the moment and stop reacting so quickly to the same repetitive fight.

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