
← ShameOver - The Drink Less Podcast1 jun · 30 min
The Identity Shift That Changes Your Relationship With Alcohol Forever Ft. Marrilee Burke
<p><b>What if the story you’ve been telling yourself about alcohol… isn’t actually true?</b></p><p></p><p>In the final part of this powerful 3-part conversation, licensed psychotherapist <b>Merrilee Burke</b>, LMFT, and I dive deep into identity, labels, shame, self-awareness, and the stories so many of us unconsciously carry about who we are when it comes to drinking.</p><p></p><p>Because so many women are walking around believing:<br />“I have an addictive personality.”<br />“I’ll never be someone who can just have one.”<br />“I’m just the party girl.”<br />“This is simply who I am.”</p><p></p><p>But what if those are learned identities… not permanent truths?</p><p></p><p>In this episode, we explore:</p><ul><li>Why labels can sometimes keep us stuck</li><li>The problem with all-or-nothing thinking</li><li>How identity shapes your drinking habits</li><li>Why progress matters more than perfection</li><li>The role shame plays in overdrinking</li><li>How tracking can actually build empowerment instead of guilt</li><li>Rewriting your story around alcohol, yourself, and your future</li></ul><p></p><p>We also have a beautiful conversation around self-worth, nervous system safety, healing old conditioning, and what it really means to evolve as a person without abandoning who you used to be.</p><p></p><p>This episode is compassionate, honest, empowering, and such an important reminder that you are not broken — and you are not required to stay the same forever.</p><p></p><p>Drinking less isn’t about becoming someone new.<br />It’s about reconnecting with who you already are underneath the coping, conditioning, and shame.</p><p></p><p>Connect with Merrilee:<br /><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://merrileeburke.com" target="_blank">merrileeburke.com</a></p><p></p><p>If this series resonated with you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, or tag me on social. Your support helps more women realize they are not alone in this journey.</p><p></p><p>And don't forget: Drink on PURPOSE.</p><p></p><p>Want that support? Start the <b>Drink Less RESET now!</b></p><p>Learn more at: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.shameover.me/" target="_blank">https://www.shameover.me/</a></p>