Speak Honest Podcast: Real Talk on Relationships, Attachment Styles & the Work of Healing Childhood Trauma

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132. Dance of Attachment: Avoidant Attachment and the Solo Tango

132. Dance of Attachment: Avoidant Attachment and the Solo Tango12 aug11 min

Why does pulling away feel safer than staying close, even when the relationship is good? In this episode of the Speak Honest Podcast, Jenn Noble continues the August series on the four Attachment Stances by exploring Avoidant Attachment, what she calls the Solo Tango. Jenn breaks down the signature moves of this pattern, from strategic self sufficiency to the subtle boundary expansion that happens the moment things start to deepen, and shares the story of a client whose relationships kept end...