Your Marriage Isn't Broken, It's Paused feat. Dr Lee Baucom

<p>No man wakes up one morning and decides to stop fancying his wife. It happens by a decision neither of you remember making.</p><p>See exactly where the connection is leaking. Take your free HVM Score: <a href="https://highvaluemanproject.com/score" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://highvaluemanproject.com/score</a></p><p>Dr Lee Baucom has spent thirty years working with couples and is the author of Save the Marriage. </p><p>Jonnie bought that programme during his own divorce, ten years ago, and says it changed how he thinks about relationships to this day. They talk about the relationships that aren&#39;t broken, just quiet, and what it takes for one man to bring one back to life without waiting for permission.</p><p><strong>WHY THIS MATTERS</strong></p><p>Nobody arrives at the end of a marriage. Everybody drifts there, one benign decision at a time, and most men don&#39;t notice until the distance is too wide to talk across. Lee names the exact slope, and what a man can do about it on his own.</p><p><strong>HIGH VALUE MOMENTS</strong></p><p>02:38 What Jonnie learned about himself after his divorce</p><p>04:41 Good people having bad relationships</p><p>08:40 Save the Marriage, and the app that came before it</p><p>10:24 The little things that keep love alive</p><p>11:29 How couples hit the pause button</p><p>14:38 Why &quot;we really love each other&quot; doesn&#39;t beat the statistics</p><p>15:21 Treating the symptoms instead of the disconnection</p><p>17:26 The three levels of connection: physical, emotional, spiritual</p><p>20:16 Why the movie stops at happily ever after</p><p>24:21 The telltale signs of the pause phase</p><p>25:49 Setting the rules early: no eye rolls, no silent moods</p><p>30:54 Anger is a secondary emotion</p><p>32:29 Why you&#39;re more gracious with strangers than your wife</p><p>33:34 The disses: from disinterest to disdain</p><p>36:30 What constant rejection does to a man</p><p>40:04 When the relationship strains, everything strains</p><p>45:09 Putting your whole life on one relationship</p><p>47:18 Relationship before results</p><p>49:37 The three Cs: connect, change, create</p><p>50:45 Invitational connection, not date night</p><p>52:40 The moment his girlfriend said &quot;believe&quot;</p><p>55:49 Breaking up with love</p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH LEE</strong></p><p>If your marriage is in crisis: https://savethemarriage.comIf you&#39;re stuck and drifting that way: </p><p><a href="https://unpauseyourmarriage.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://unpauseyourmarriage.com</a></p><p><strong>YOUR HIGH VALUE MAN SCORE</strong></p><p>Discover your High Value Man score, so you can see where you&#39;re leaking your energy, connection and joy. Three minutes, and a personal report the moment you finish.</p><p><a href="https://highvaluemanproject.com/score" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://highvaluemanproject.com/score</a></p><p><strong>SHARE / REVIEW / SUBSCRIBE</strong></p><p>Know a man whose marriage has gone quiet? Send this to him directly. Not a broadcast. One specific man.</p><p>A review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify takes 90 seconds. It&#39;s the most useful thing you can do to help more men find this show.</p><p>Apple: <a href="htpps://highvaluemanproject.com/apple" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">htpps://highvaluemanproject.com/apple</a></p><p>Spotify: <a href="htpps://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">htpps://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify</a></p>