
← The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad20 aug · 55 min
What Is It Actually Like to Experience You?
<p>What if the reason you keep having the same relationship problems has less to do with the people you choose—and more to do with the way you show up? <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@TheNotSoBadpod" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Joshua Jones</a> sits down with <a href="https://www.instagram.com/allisonkbrenner" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Dr. Allison Brenner</a>, psychotherapist, industrial-organizational psychologist, and founder of <a href="https://www.instagram.com/yourinnervue/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">InnerVue</a>, to explore the uncomfortable gap between <strong>who you think you are and how other people actually experience you.</strong> From dating the “same person” in different bodies to being misunderstood at work, <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/allisonbrenner" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Dr. Brenner</a> breaks down how blind spots, overused strengths, and the difference between intent and impact can keep us stuck in patterns we don't even realize we're repeating.</p><p>We get into why your friends and partners may not tell you the real stuff, how to separate useful feedback from someone's personal opinion, why curiosity beats confrontation, and how getting honest perception data can turn self-awareness into real change. If you've ever wondered <strong>“Why does this keep happening to me?”</strong> this conversation might leave you asking a much more uncomfortable question: <strong>“</strong><a href="https://www.yourinnervue.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"><strong>What is it actually like to experience me?</strong></a><strong>”</strong></p><p>If you want to see how you impact others get your InnerVue assessment 20% off with CODE: bachelor20</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thenotsobad" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">tiktok/@thenotsobad</a></p>