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What Is It Actually Like to Experience You?

What Is It Actually Like to Experience You?20 Aug55 min

<p>What if the reason you keep having the same relationship problems has less to do with the people you choose—and more to do with the way you show up? <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@TheNotSoBadpod" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Joshua Jones</a> sits down with <a href="https://www.instagram.com/allisonkbrenner" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Dr. Allison Brenner</a>, psychotherapist, industrial-organizational psychologist, and founder of <a href="https://www.instagram.com/yourinnervue/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">InnerVue</a>, to explore the uncomfortable gap between <strong>who you think you are and how other people actually experience you.</strong> From dating the “same person” in different bodies to being misunderstood at work, <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/allisonbrenner" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Dr. Brenner</a> breaks down how blind spots, overused strengths, and the difference between intent and impact can keep us stuck in patterns we don&#39;t even realize we&#39;re repeating.</p><p>We get into why your friends and partners may not tell you the real stuff, how to separate useful feedback from someone&#39;s personal opinion, why curiosity beats confrontation, and how getting honest perception data can turn self-awareness into real change. If you&#39;ve ever wondered <strong>“Why does this keep happening to me?”</strong> this conversation might leave you asking a much more uncomfortable question: <strong>“</strong><a href="https://www.yourinnervue.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"><strong>What is it actually like to experience me?</strong></a><strong>”</strong></p><p>If you want to see how you impact others get your InnerVue assessment 20% off with CODE: bachelor20</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thenotsobad" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">tiktok/@thenotsobad</a></p>