The Positivity Xperience

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Why do you keep explaining yourself long after the other person clearly understands what you're saying?

Why do you keep explaining yourself long after the other person clearly understands what you're saying?5 dagen geleden30 min

Sometimes we assume that if we could just find the right words, give one more example, or explain our reasoning a little better, the other person would finally get it.

But they may already get it.

They may simply disagree.

In this episode of The Positivity Xperience, we're looking at the psychology behind over-explaining: why disapproval can make us keep talking, how explanations turn into negotiations, and why the need to be understood can quietly become the need to control how someone sees us.

We'll also talk about the difference between genuine confusion and repeated pushback, when clarification is healthy, and how to stop defending decisions that have already been clearly communicated.

Because your job isn't to make everyone agree with your decision.

Sometimes your job is to communicate it—and let them have their reaction.

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