Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators

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Trust Your Desire with Susanna Brisk

Trust Your Desire with Susanna Brisk1 okt57 min

<p>Your body has been trying to tell you something. In this episode, Susanna Brisk, sexual intuition coach and author, joins us to explore how to tune into your yes, no, and hell yes. We talk about intuition vs. anxiety, ditching performative sex for present sex, and why orgasms should not be the only goal. Plus manifesting your person, fantasies as self-discovery, sex at every age, and why STI testing and the HPV vaccine matter. It&#39;s flirty, funny, and just a little bit wrong in the best way.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>✨ Special Offers: ✨</strong></p><p><a href="https://splashblanket.us/discount/JORDAN15" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><strong>Splash Blanket!</strong></a><strong> </strong>| Use code <strong>Jordan15</strong></p><p><a href="https://prodxhealth.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><strong>ProDx Health</strong></a><strong> | </strong>Use <strong>JordanDnelle</strong> to save 25%</p><p><a href="https://happyv.com/"><strong>Happy V</strong></a> | use code <strong>JORDANDNELLE</strong> to save 15%</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, ProDx, Phexx, Happy V</strong><br></p><p><strong>Jump to the Good Stuff:</strong></p><p>07:03 – What a &quot;sexual intuitive&quot; actually is</p><p>09:36 – How patriarchy and capitalism keep women small</p><p>11:06 – How to restart shut-down intuition</p><p>13:46 – Live energy read + conjuring the man downstairs</p><p>16:41 – Relationship ambivalence and the &quot;deservingness&quot; question</p><p>26:16 – Fantasies, erotica, and why we lack the language</p><p>31:35 – Ageism, sex in your 90s, and the STI/HPV education gap</p><p>37:35 – Intuition vs. anxiety: &quot;Can you be turned on and scared?&quot;</p><p>45:04 – Performative sex, porn, and the &quot;correct pussy&quot; myth</p><p>49:29 – Great sex without orgasm, defining pleasure, and sex as jazz</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Pleasure Highlights:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Your intuition is a skill you can rebuild. </p></li><li><p>You&#39;re the expert on you. </p></li><li><p>Your body is the tiebreaker between intuition and anxiety.</p></li><li><p>Fantasy is information, not a confession.</p></li><li><p>Orgasm can be a goal, but it shouldn&#39;t be the only one.</p></li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect with Susanna:</strong></p><ul><li><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/sexualintuitive/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Instagram</a> @sexualintuitive</p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.