Are You Talking Your Sex Life to Death? Why Trying to Fix It Can Kill Desire

<p>In relationships, talking about sex is supposed to bring you closer. But when the same conversation keeps happening and nothing changes, sex can start to feel more like pressure than intimacy.</p><p>One of you feels rejected.</p><p>The other feels evaluated.</p><p>And eventually even affection can start carrying the weight of what might happen next.</p><p>In this episode:</p><ul><li><p>Why “I want more sex” can land as “you’re failing me”</p></li><li><p>What happens when the same sex conversation keeps repeating</p></li><li><p>Why kissing, touching, and flirting can start to feel loaded</p></li><li><p>When date night becomes the same relationship dynamic in a nicer setting</p></li><li><p>What a sex conversation needs to produce if it is actually going to help</p></li></ul><p>I’m joined by Jordyn Hakes, host of <em>The Horny Housewife</em>, for a candid conversation about mismatched desire, sexual pressure, resentment, affection, and what happens when trying harder starts making intimacy feel even harder.</p><p>Sometimes the problem isn’t that you’re avoiding the conversation. It’s that the conversation itself has become part of the problem.</p><p>Listen to <em>Are You Talking Your Sex Life to Death? Why Trying to Fix It Can Kill Desire</em> and follow <em>We Need To Talk with Dr. Darcy Sterling</em> for more conversations about relationships, sex, desire, intimacy, and emotional connection.</p><p><u>REFERENCES/RESOURCES</u></p><p><a href="https://www.drgregorygreco.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"><u>⁠Monmouth Plastic Surgery⁠</u></a></p><p><a href="http://www.alternativescounseling.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"><u>⁠⁠www.alternativescounseling.com⁠</u></a></p><p><a href="http://www.thehornyhousewifepodcast.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"><u>www.TheHornyHousewifePodcast.com</u></a></p><p><br></p><p>CREDITS</p><p>“We Need To Talk With Dr. Darcy Sterling” is a Sterling Standard Production. Editing and sound engineering by Bart Migal. Our theme music is by Trending Music. Special thanks to Amanda Cristiani and Robyn Jaenchen. </p><p> </p><p><a href="https://www.askdrdarcy.com/disclaimer/"><u>⁠DISCLAIMER⁠</u></a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/drdarcysterling/"><u>⁠Instagram:@drdarcysterling ⁠</u></a></p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/DrDarcySterling/"><u>⁠Facebook:Dr.Darcy Sterling⁠</u></a></p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@doctordarcysterling"><u>⁠Tik Tok:@doctordarcysterling  ⁠</u></a></p><p