Is Your Partner Really the Problem? The Mental Health Work That Can Transform Your Relationship

Relationships help us grow up. That's one of the things I love about them, even though sometimes it's also one of the things we like the least. Our relationships hold up a mirror to us. They show us where we're generous and where we're selfish, where we're patient and where we're defensive, where we're good listeners and where we're already preparing our rebuttal before the other person has finished talking. And it's so much easier to point the finger at someone else.