The Skin I Left Behind: Surgery, Femininity & Dating After Betrayal | 9 Lives S4E4

<p>What happens after you get the body you always wanted?</p><p>After losing 100lbs, I was left with loose skin that no amount of training could change. Eventually, I made the decision to have it surgically removed.</p><p>But this episode isn&#39;t really about surgery.</p><p>It&#39;s about what came after.</p><p>About learning to inhabit a body that had changed almost beyond recognition, finding my way back to my femininity after years of survival mode, and navigating dating, intimacy and trust after betrayal.</p><p>Because changing your body is one thing. Learning to feel safe inside it again is another.</p><p>In this episode of 9 Lives, I&#39;m talking honestly about loose skin removal surgery, body confidence, femininity, betrayal, dating again and what it really means to come home to yourself.</p><p>Sometimes the final transformation isn&#39;t becoming someone new. It&#39;s finally feeling like you again.</p><p><br></p><p>Until next week, </p><p>Cass 🖤</p>