A Touch Of Gay #67: Barracks Bar Phoenix Wins!

New Phoenix leather bar clears major hurdle, STR8 guests in gay spaces, San Diego Pride!

Daily Inspiration: False pride always keeps us overly concerned about reputation

* Definition: False pride is an inflated ego used to mask deep-seated insecurity.

* Defensiveness: Interpreting constructive feedback or differing opinions as personal attacks.

* Impression Management: Constantly manipulating how others perceive you to validate your self-worth.

* Inability to Apologize: Viewing the admission of faults as a threat to your social standing.

True vs. False Pride: According to Psychology Today, pride generally falls into two distinct categories:

* False Pride: Driven by fear and internalized shame. It relies on external validation, status, and pretending to be flawless to manipulate others’ opinions.

* True Pride: Derived from authentic accomplishments and personal values. It builds self-respect, allows for learning from mistakes, and does not require constant praise from others.

Check In:

* Abusive Arizona summer heat keeping me inside.

* Contemplating fall travels, LA, men’s retreat, Palm Springs Leather.