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EP43: Your Pleasant Obsession – The Kind of Goal That Makes You Feel Fully Alive
Have you ever had a goal you could not stop thinking about?
Not in an unhealthy way. In a way that gave you energy.
A goal that made you want to get out of bed earlier, make one more call, take one more step, and keep moving even when the evidence was not there yet.
I call that a pleasant obsession.
In this episode of Born to Win, I explore why becoming emotionally engaged with a meaningful goal can completely change the way you think, act, and experience your life.
I share a story from my own life, when I was twenty-eight years old and building a portfolio of investment properties.
I was intensely focused.
I had a target.
I had momentum.
And people around me could feel the energy I was bringing into the room.
That is what happens when you become pleasantly obsessed with something that truly matters to you.
I also revisit a story my father shared in You Were Born Rich about John and Pat, a couple who wanted to own a home despite having very little evidence that it was possible.