No Expectations

<p>You&#39;re not missing them, you&#39;re missing a feeling. Let me explain. But first, I share a triggering message I received from a friend pointed at my avoidance. I&#39;ll give you an alternate perspective on how to handle harsh energy from those closest to you, while weaving in emotional wounds from how I grew up, and the layer of distance every girl I&#39;ve dated has felt with me. I also cleared the decks again in my dating life, and I&#39;ll explain why easy and light still counts as saying no to yourself. Then two situations: a guy strategizing his final text, and a woman waiting on her gym crush to make a move (and my opinionated thoughts on women making the first move in general).</p><p><br></p><p>Ready to break the pattern, apply to work with me: <a href="https://confidencechris.com/mentorship-application" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://confidencechris.com/mentorship-application</a></p><p><br></p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 You&#39;re Missing a Feeling, Not a Person</p><p>11:12 Putting All Your Peace in One Person</p><p>17:29 Why I Cleared the Decks Again</p><p>23:54 How My Avoidance Affects Others</p><p>39:25 He Badly Wants Her Back</p><p>54:49 Girls Shooting Their Shot First</p>