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"Almost Never”: What This Husband Learned About Their Sex Life - with Ben | Ep. 206
<p>When Ben asked his wife of 31 years how often she actually wanted to have sex, her answer — “almost never” — completely shocked him.</p><p><br></p><p>In this conversation, Ben shares what he couldn’t see before Doing It Together, what happened when he chose curiosity over defensiveness, and how he’s learning to create a more mutually enjoyable intimate life with his wife. It’s an honest conversation about good intentions, unexpected blind spots, and what can happen when both partners are willing to keep learning.</p><p></p><p><a href="https://jannadentonhowes.com/libido" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Sign up for Janna's free class</a>, "<span style="color: rgb(12, 12, 12);">The Truth About Women's Libido: </span><em style="color: rgb(17, 17, 18);">Why Everything You've Tried Hasn't Worked and What To Do Instead." </em><span style="color: rgb(17, 17, 18);">Watch the class as a couple or on your own. Classes happen on Sept. 21 and 22. </span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="background-color: rgb(250, 251, 255);">Ready to learn as a couple? Registration is open for Janna's coaching program for couples, </span><a href="https://jannadentonhowes.com/doingittogether" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: rgb(250, 251, 255);">Doing It Together</a><span style="background-color: rgb(250, 251, 255);">. Next round runs Oct./Nov. 2026. Deadline to register is Sept. 29.</span></p><p><br></p><p>Looking for where to start? Get <a href="http://jannadentonhowes.com/freevideos" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Janna's Intro Videos</a> for men and women.</p><p><br></p><p><span style="background-color: rgb(250, 251, 255);">Ready to learn on your own? Janna's </span><a href="https://jannadentonhowes.com/wimfoundations" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: rgb(250, 251, 255);">Wanting It More Foundations</a><span style="background-color: rgb(250, 251, 255);"> self-paced course for women is always open for registration.</span></p>