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The Swinger Queen Wasn't Feeling It

The Swinger Queen Wasn't Feeling It30 Sept1 h 06 min

Taara Rose and her partner James were literally crowned Queen and King of the swinger community, but during the pandemic, Taara realized her pleasure had never been her priority. She set out to reconnect with her body, understand her own pleasure, and start advocating for it in all of her encounters.

And the results...?

Let's just say fire emojis abound, pinecones. And uhh, Taara got a tattoo of two pairs of scissors. 🔥✂️🔥✂️🔥

In this episode:

How Taara and James started out as friends with benefits, and decided to be non-monogamous from day one of their Official RelationshipBeach blowjobs under a double rainbow (yes, that really happened)What it's like to be crowned royalty at one of the biggest swinger conventions in the worldThe anxiety that started showing up in her body before events, how she wrote it off in the moment, and what it was actually telling herThe article that got her kicked out of the swinger communityHow Taara's whole life changed when she trained to become a certified somatic sex educatorThe moment she realized her own pleasure had never been her priorityDecentering orgasms and finding pleasure in coffee, dog walks, and sexy treesNegotiating a scene weeks in advance, and what two full weeks of aftercare looks likeGoing from swinging together to polyamory apart, and how James feels about itThe Wheel of Consent, and why "thank you for your no" is part of itWhy patriarchy has all of us—women and men—performing in bed instead of feeling anything

WORK WITH TAARA ROSE:

Website: https://sexedforthemodernbed.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexedforthemodernbed

Email: taararosecoaching@gmail.com

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