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Navy Anesthesiologist Dr. Zachary Meade: From Childhood Trauma to Becoming a Doctor
<p>Dr. Zachary Meade watched his grandfather shoot his father to save his mother's life. He was a child. He thought it was normal. "Apparently it's not normal."</p><p></p><p>Dr. Meade is a Navy anesthesiologist based in San Diego who took one of the least conventional roads into medicine you will ever hear. Before medical school he was an Army bomb squad technician, a firefighter, an EMT, and an electrical engineer, and he served in the Army, the Air Force, and the Navy. </p><p></p><p>Before any of that he was a kid in Indiana and Florida moving between homes and foster care, failing freshman English, with nobody in his family who had ever done any of this. </p><p></p><p>Today he reaches over 400,000 people online debunking medical misinformation. In this conversation with Dr. David Spiro, he talks about the grandparents who rebuilt his foundation, what the bomb squad taught him about attention to detail ("an 84 essentially meant you died"), the faith that gave him purpose, and the hardest question of the episode: has he forgiven his parents? He shares the phone call that ended contact with his father, the rule that helped his mother get sober, and the "cultural divide" that opens up when you become the first physician in your family. He closes with what he would say to 10-year-old Zach, and </p><p></p><p></p><p>Dr. Spiro responds with a story from his own pediatric ER that he says will change how he practices.</p><p></p><p><b>Chapters:</b></p><p></p><p>(00:00) Cold Open: "My Dad Was a Very Violent Man"<br />(00:16) Welcome & Meet Dr. Zachary Meade<br />(01:20) "I Never Saw Me Being a Physician"<br />(02:18) Indiana, Florida, and a Childhood That Wasn't Normal<br />(04:55) Foster Care and a Greyhound Bus Through Fort Benning<br />(06:13) Joining the Army at 17: Bomb Squad, Not Chaplain<br />(07:11) The Grandparents Who Rebuilt His Foundation<br />(08:53) Bill Henson: Forgiveness, Hard Work, and the Balance Between<br />(10:05) What the Bomb Squad Taught Him: "An 84 Meant You Died"<br />(11:50) Wounded Veterans and the Pivot to Engineering<br />(12:26) Carle Illinois College of Medicine: Building Physician Innovators<br />(13:18) Landmines in the Woods: The Stateside EOD Mission<br />(15:08) Why He Chose the Navy<br />(16:43) How Childhood Trauma Shaped Him as a Physician<br />(17:44) A Steeper Hill Than His Peers<br />(18:24) How Faith Shaped Him<br />(19:39) What It Means to Serve<br />(21:37) "Have You Forgiven Them?"<br />(22:12) Married at 20 and Realizing What Normal Was<br />(23:22) His Father's Relapse and the Phone Call From the NICU<br />(24:18) "I Can Love Him. I Can Even Forgive Him."<br />(25:39) The Rule That Helped His Mother Get Sober<br />(26:59) The Cultural Divide: "I Concur, Doctor"<br />(28:45) Reaching 400,000 People Online<br />(29:59) Fighting Misinformation That Can Kill<br />(33:12) Tommy Martin and Doing Good on Social Media<br />(34:21) What Would You Tell 10-Year-Old Zach?<br />(36:20) "This Is Just the Intro Scene to Your Life"<br />(36:58) Dr. Spiro's Story: "I'm Here Because No One Loves Me"<br />(39:44) Closing Thoughts and Zach's Question for David</p><p></p><p>Follow HuMed so you never miss an episode.</p>