
← Lousy Advice7 Jul · 47 min
autistic burnout, body changes & what if our kid's a jobsworth?
This week we're talking pregnancy updates, autistic burnout, panic attacks, body changes, equal parenting, Rory's first dad event, why we're somehow moving house on the same day I'm due to give birth, and this week's terrible Lousy Advice xx
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0:00 - intro
1:14 - third trimester update, resilience, pregnancy mood swings
5:38 - getting attention at a wedding, getting a fake bump, trying to help people understand autism
9:29 - panic attacks, autistic burnout, self compassion, POV of a neurotypical mindset
15:04 - losing the ability to make small talk + our wedding vows
20:14 - Rory’s first dad baby event, stay at home equal parenting in 2026, joining mum clubs, world cup
25:53 - buying outfits pregnant, body changing, falling asleep or going for a poo when Rory talks
34:35 - lousy advice of the week, not preparing for the baby, help us buy baby kit