306. A marriage that works on paper and feels flat in real life: How do I bring it up without it blowing up?

On this weeks bestie advice segment... what do you do when you want more and don't know how to ask for it? A listener writes in eight years into a marriage, carrying resentment she's never fully voiced and a longing she's too embarrassed to name. We're getting into desire, shame, uneven effort, and how to start the conversation you've been avoiding for years.

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