Ep 39: Reclaiming Childhood As A Dad, With Brandon Fong

What if the goal of parenting isn't to make your kid grow up, but to help them stay a kid longer? Brandon Fong joins The Dad Manual to talk about raising his daughter Kaya with childlike curiosity, emotional honesty, and zero interest in bubble-wrapping her from the world. Tony and Brandon dig into masculine and feminine energy in parenting, why toddlers process feelings in about 90 seconds if you let them, the story behind a very memorable ER visit, and how AI might make being simply human the most valuable skill of all. It's a warm, funny, unexpectedly deep conversation about staying playful while raising a person.

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00:00 The slide, the ER, dad wisdom

00:39 Meet Brandon Fong

01:24 Reclaiming childhood as an adult

02:22 What sparked childlike curiosity

04:37 Naming things kills their magic

07:00 Learning Kaya's perspective

09:03 The "other mother" past life talk

11:01 What Kaya is like as a kid

12:56 Always wanting to be a dad

14:04 Masculine and feminine parenting energy