The Kink Perspective

← The Kink Perspective5 Oct · 49 min

Season 5 Episode 39 - The Difference Between a Safeguard and a Wall...

Season 5 Episode 39 - The Difference Between a Safeguard and a Wall...5 Oct49 min

<p>On today's show, I'm discussing the difference between a safeguard and a wall, and how the things we build to protect ourselves can sometimes begin keeping connection out. I look at boundaries, vetting, trust, and what happens when reasonable caution becomes a search for certainty. I also explore whether our safeguards are helping us decide who to let closer, or making sure we never have to decide at all.</p><p><br /></p><p>This episode is supported by Enhanced-Mind Counseling. </p><p>If you’re looking to understand the patterns behind your relationships, attachment, or the dynamics you find yourself in, you can reach out through my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠<a rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://enhanced-mind.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-Mind</p><p>Don’t forget to follow the show and leave a 5-star rating so others can find it.</p><p><br /></p><p>Want to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode?Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠<a rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TheKinkPerspective@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>⁠⁠⁠⁠</p><p><br /></p><p>Find me on Substack - Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | Substack</p><p>I have a book out, <em>Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology</em>. You can find it where you purchase most eBooks. Print version available now.</p><p>#Psychology #Safeguard #Walls #Boundaries</p>