A guide to eating pussy with Amy Baldwin

<p>The manosphere thinks going down on a woman is gay, submissive, or a low-return waste of time. It&#39;s wrong on all three — so I brought in an expert to help me prove it.</p><p><br></p><p>In this crossover episode — <em>Shameless Love</em> — I sit down with sex educator <strong>Amy Baldwin</strong> from the <strong>Shameless Sex </strong>podcast for an honest, explicit, and useful guide to going down on women. We take apart the manosphere nonsense, then get practical: how to get out of your head as a receiver, real anatomy (yes, Amy brought a vulva puppet), hygiene without the shame, communication that actually works, and my field-tested tips for being great at this — plus a rapid-fire hot-or-not round to finish.</p><p><br></p><p>Ten years ago I wrote a blog called <em>What Women Wish You Knew About Eating Pussy.</em> Consider this the 2.0.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Explicit. Headphones recommended.</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Mentioned in this episode</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/528985.She_Comes_First" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">She Comes First</a> — Ian Kerner</li></ul><ul><li><a href="https://www.emilynagoski.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Emily Nagoski</a> (&quot;same parts, organized differently&quot;)</li></ul><ul><li><a href="https://savage.love/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Dan Savage</a></li></ul><ul><li>Midori — the &quot;pussy hug&quot;</li></ul><ul><li><a href="https://feeld.co/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Feeld</a> (dating app) · Uberlube</li></ul><ul><li> Amy&#39;s book, <a href="https://www.shamelesssex.com/book" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Shameless Sex</a></li></ul><ul><li> What women wished you knew about eating pussy blog post</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Links</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Shameless Sex: </strong>podcast + <a href="https://www.shamelesssex.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">shamelesssex.com</a> (couples retreats, Oct 2026)</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect with Shaun</strong></p><p><a href="https://shaungalanos.substack.com" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Read the blog</a></p><p><a href="https://shaungalanos.com/podcast/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">The Love Drive Podcast</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/thelovedrive/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Instagram: @thelovedrive</a></p><p><a href="https