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Horse Riding Nerves: What Are You REALLY Afraid Of? | Building Rider Confidence

Horse Riding Nerves: What Are You REALLY Afraid Of? | Building Rider Confidence22 Sept18 min

<p>Do you ever say, “I’m nervous about riding” without really knowing <em>what</em> you’re nervous about?</p><p>After watching the highlights from Burghley and Blenheim Horse Trials, I found myself thinking about something really interesting: even the very best riders talk openly about feeling nervous. But their nerves aren't necessarily the same as the nerves experienced by someone who has lost their riding confidence.</p><p>In this episode, we explore why <strong>understanding exactly what is making you nervous is such an important first step towards rebuilding confidence</strong>.</p><p>We talk about:</p><p>• Why even elite riders experience nerves<br />• The difference between different types of riding anxiety and fear<br />• Why simply saying “I’m nervous” doesn't tell us enough<br />• How your thoughts can reveal what your brain is actually worried about<br />• Why journaling can be such a useful tool for nervous riders<br />• The difference between investigating a negative thought and dwelling on it<br />• How one fear can lead to a much deeper fear underneath it<br />• Why understanding your personal triggers matters when working on confidence<br />• A simple exercise to help you uncover exactly what you're afraid might happen</p><p>I'll also give you a practical exercise to try this week using one simple question:</p><p><strong>“And then what?”</strong></p><p>Because before you can start changing a fear, you need to understand what that fear actually is.</p><p>If you've lost your confidence after a fall, difficult experience or change in your horse, this episode is a great place to start.</p><p><strong>Remember: confidence isn't about never feeling nervous. It's about understanding your nerves and learning how to work with them.</strong></p><p>🐴 <strong>Free Rider Confidence Resource:</strong><br /><a href="https://alignandadvance.com/pre-ride-routine-and-tracker-opt-in" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Download my Pre-Ride Routine &amp; Confidence Tracker</a> to help you feel calmer and more prepared before you ride.</p><p>Find out more about Rider Confidence Coaching and Equine Reiki with Align &amp; Advance at <strong>alignandadvance.com</strong></p><p><strong>Subscribe to The Rise and Ride Show</strong> for more conversations about horse riding confidence, mindset, nervous riders, equestrian life and the relationship between horse and rider.</p><p></p>