
← The Stripped Podcast14 Jun 2025 · 25 min
TSP #24 - Parenting from scars and healing the deeper wound
<p>I sat front-row at my son’s school show, blood barely contained through the gauze and clapping through pain, <em>believing this proved my love</em>.</p><p>Hours later, an ER doctor said four words that cut deeper than my fall: <strong>“I can see your bone.”</strong></p><p>This episode is a raw confession about how we sometimes parent from <strong>childhood scars, </strong>not wisdom, and I experienced this, that day. Why "toughing it out" is trauma in disguise. And how we accidentally teach our kids to abandon themselves when we refuse to heal. </p><p><br></p><p><strong>You’ll walk away with:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Clues on how to spot when <strong>fear</strong> (not love) drives your parenting choices</p></li><li><p> Why adressing emotional scars is as vital as stitching wounds</p></li><li><p> shifts to <strong>parent from wholeness</strong>, not inherited pain</p></li></ul><li><p><br></p></li><p><strong>For every parent who’s ever:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Cancelled self-care for a "mom/dad emergency"</p></li><li><p>Felt guilt for needing rest</p></li><li><p>Worried they’re repeating family patterns</p><p><br></p><p>I hope you enjoy this episode. Always feel free to share feedback with me via instagram @joelle.smaniotto </p><p><br></p><p><br></p></li></ul>