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Stop Presenting. Start Listening. | The Real Skill Behind Persuasion

Stop Presenting. Start Listening. | The Real Skill Behind Persuasion15 Sept14 min

One of the biggest mistakes we make in sales is believing persuasion comes from having a better presentation, a better script, or a better answer to an objection.

After more than 40 years in real estate, I’ve come to believe almost the opposite is true.

The best salespeople aren’t thinking hardest about what they’re going to say next. They’re paying closer attention to the person sitting across from them.

In Week 7 of Control Before Confidence, we move beyond breathing, pace, articulation, questions, objections, and presentation skills and get to the reason we practice them in the first place: freedom. Freedom to stop concentrating on ourselves and start noticing the client.

In this episode, we look at how to:

• Notice changes in facial expression, tone, and body language without pretending to read someone’s mind • Communicate effectively when more than one decision-maker is involved • Adjust your communication style to the person in front of you • Ask questions that uncover what really matters • Persuade without pressure or manipulation • Create the conditions where clients feel safe enough to tell you the truth

Professional selling isn’t about getting someone to say yes. It’s about helping people become clear enough, informed enough, and comfortable enough to make a good decision.

Truth follows trust. And trust begins when we stop presenting long enough to start paying attention.

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