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Leaving Islam, Questioning Gender Ideology & Becoming a Zionist | Sia Mensah
<p><strong></strong><a href="https://whosebodyisit.substack.com/subscribe?next=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack.com%2F%40whosebodyisit&utm_source=profile-page&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=substack_profile&just_signed_up=true"><strong>Unlock exclusive content and support the Whose Body Is It Podcast</strong></a><strong></strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong></strong><a href="https://calendly.com/whosebodyisit/coaching-for-sovereign-women"><strong>1:1 Guidance with Isabella Malbin</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Sia grew up in a Muslim family in Brooklyn, immersed in a faith she genuinely loved while also learning that the Quran was the literal word of God. But as she got older, questions about what Islam taught about women, violence, apostasy, and obedience became harder to silence. </p><p><br></p><p>She takes us through the experiences that ultimately led her to leave Islam—including confronting verses she couldn't reconcile with her own moral compass, secretly questioning the faith as a teenager, and eventually telling her parents she was no longer Muslim and attracted to women. </p><p><br></p><p>She also opens up about the complicated experience of distancing herself from family, including a period of no contact with her mother.</p><p><br></p><p>But Sia's story doesn't end with leaving Islam. After finding a home in the queer community, she began encountering ideas about sex and gender that created the same uneasy feeling she had experienced as a child: <em>something doesn't make sense, but everyone is telling me I have to believe it anyway.</em> We talk about her growing doubts about transgender ideology, her decision to become publicly gender-critical, the social costs of dissent and cancel culture, and why she ultimately came to identify as a Zionist after October 7.</p><p><br></p><p>This is a conversation about what happens when you stop silencing your intuition and overriding your own inner voice in order to belong.</p><p><br></p><p>Follow Sia Mensah on <a href="https://substack.com/@sunlightmoonlight" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Substack</a> & <a href="https://www.instagram.com/siasnotebook/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Instagram</a> <a href="https://n3vlynnn.com/she-holds-the-line/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">She Holds the Line: Black Women Speak on Gender Ideology, edited by Nevline Nnaji</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong></strong><a href="https://www.instagram.com/whosebodyisit/"><strong>Follow Whose Body Is It on Instagram</strong></a><strong></strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong></strong><a href="https://www.whosebodyisit.com/master-class-library"><strong>Classes for anti-woke women</strong></a><strong></strong></p><p><br></p><p>Music Cred //<a href="https://soundcloud.com/grandakt"><em>Time by ASHUTOSH</em></a><em></em><a href="https://www.free-stock-music.com/"><em>Music promoted by Free Stock Music</em></a><em></em><a href="https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/deed.en_US"><em>Creative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported License</em></a></p>