Friendship Breakups, Comparison & Choosing Each Other with Landzy Gama & ZeeXOnline

<p><br /></p><p>This episode of According to B is brought to you in partnership with Bernini- the sparkling spritzer born from real wine. </p><p>We live in a world that quietly teaches women to compete - over beauty, success, relationships, and even friendships. And sometimes, without realising it, that pressure seeps into the very relationships meant to hold us.</p><p><br /></p><p>In this episode of According to B, we’re choosing something different.</p><p><br /></p><p>I’m joined by best friends and Because We Said So podcast co-hosts Landzy Gama and Zama Marubelela (ZeeXOnline) for a deeply honest conversation about female friendship as refuge, grounding, and one of adulthood’s greatest love stories.</p><p>Together, we unpack:</p><ul><li><p>How comparison and competition show up in women’s friendships</p></li><li><p>What female friendship teaches us about love and becoming</p></li><li><p>Navigating friendship breakups without villains</p></li><li><p>Why our friends often become the true witnesses to our lives</p></li></ul><p>This conversation is an invitation to slow down, soften, and savour the relationships that let us be messy, honest, and fully ourselves.</p><p>Subscribe to The B Word here:<a href="https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBWord?su.." rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBWord?su..</a>. </p><p><br /></p><p>✰ MEET OUR CO-HOSTS ✰</p><p>Zama &amp; Landzy</p><p>Landzy Gama and Zama Marubelele are best friends, Youtubers, content creators and the co-hosts of the podcast Because We Said So- a space beloved for its deeply relatable conversations about girlhood, friendship, love, and becoming. Known for their honesty, humour, and emotional openness, they’ve built a platform that feels like a safe place to land for women navigating adulthood in real time.</p><p>What truly sets Landzy and Zama apart is the bond they share and the way they show up for each other- with softness, accountability, and care. Through their work, they remind women that friendship can be grounding, expansive, and life-shaping, and that choosing each other in a world that encourages comparison is a powerful act. Their journey reflects the beauty of growing together, speaking openly, and allowing friendship to be one of life’s greatest love stories.</p><p><br /></p><p>✰ TIMESTAMPS✰</p><p>00:00- Coming up</p><p>01:21- About the conversation</p><p>02:48- Meet Landzy &amp; Zama</p><p>04:10- Landzy &amp; Zama on vlogging vs podcasting</p><p>06:30- G