It's Not Him, It's You — You're Designed to Draw Him In

<p>Trigger alert: it&#39;s not him — it&#39;s you. (Well… not entirely you.). If you&#39;re aching for him to do the work and finally meet you emotionally — and you know what you&#39;ve been doing isn&#39;t helping — Courtney and Mike go into the feminine&#39;s role in sacred relating.</p><p><br></p><p>They name the &quot;if he changes, everything will be fine&quot; shadow, the wall women yell over, and why mothering him kills polarity.</p><p><br></p><p>The invitation is a different seat: land in Me, know the little girl who&#39;s hyper-vigilantly managing him, and embody desire so he can actually feel it — consent before hard talks, fierce love, and delivery from the oracle (not accusation). This isn&#39;t another layer of self-blame. It&#39;s radical responsibility and freedom: do your part of the dance so the alchemy can come online.</p><p><br></p><p>Connect with us:</p><ul><li><p>Free: Bringing Your Oracle to Him → <a href="https://www.courtneywren.com/bring-your-oracle-to-him" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.courtneywren.com/bring-your-oracle-to-him</a></p></li><li><p>The Initiated Man: <a href="https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/TIM" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/TIM</a></p></li><li><p>The 2:2 Couples Container: <a href="https://www.thesacredwe.com/2-2-container-details" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.thesacredwe.com/2-2-container-details</a></p></li><li><p>Couples list: <a href="https://www.thesacredwe.com/thesacredwe" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.thesacredwe.com/thesacredwe</a></p></li><li><p>Courtney 1:1: <a href="https://www.courtneywren.com/containers" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.courtneywren.com/containers</a></p></li><li><p>Mike coaching: <a href="https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/coaching" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.itsmikeelliott.com/coaching</a></p></li></ul><p>Email:</p><p>transform@itsmikeelliott.com | relating@courtneywren.com</p><p>IG: <a href="@mikeelliott.relating" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">@mikeelliott.relating</a> | <a href="@courtneywren.relating" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">@courtneywren.relating</a></p>