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527. Coaching Hotline: Why You're Resentful Instead of Just Asking for What You Want

527. Coaching Hotline: Why You're Resentful Instead of Just Asking for What You Want15 sept.7 min

Have you ever tried to convince yourself you shouldn’t be upset, while still feeling completely resentful underneath? This week, I answer a Coaching Hotline question from a listener who feels frustrated that people attend her events less often than she attends theirs. I explore why resentment often comes from treating your assumptions about other people’s expectations as facts, why you can't coach yourself around a circumstance that is actually a thought, and how getting clear on what is really happening is the first step to changing the way you feel.

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